Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Why I love my kids playing on my phone!!



My wife is very structured in “electronics time” for our children.  The time they have to play on electronics is predetermined, giving them this time to look forward to that they will be able to pick a form of electronics to enjoy.

One of the things I initially did not prefer was when I decided to allow them, periodically, to play games on my phone.  They would download Subway Surfers, or some other game, and then I would get these little annoying updates that would, for some reason, cause me grief.  I would delete the entire game, and clean my phone of potentially annoying things in my life.

However, I had an epiphany which changed my whole outlook on these little games.  This morning as I was in my staff meeting, one of these little annoying reminders “popped” up for an update or something regarding a game my son played on my phone; usually when this happens, I’m like, “really….”, and move on to delete the game.  However, this morning was different.  I saw the update, pictured my little boy playing this game with joy on his face, thanked God for allowing me to be a part of his life, and prayed for my son. 

I am now thankful for these little game updates that “pop up” on my phone.  I am reminded to pray for my kids, picture them in my thoughts, and thank the Lord for being able to be a part of their lives, and pray to be a better father to them.

What are things in your life, parents, that remind you to pray and think about your children? I would like to know!

Monday, September 22, 2014

Leaders—what’s the purpose of your gifts?

Ephesians 4:12

For the PERFECTING of the saints
For the WORK of the ministry
For the EDIFYING of the body of Christ


Perfecting:
Greek word:      kat-ar-tis-mos'              (Meaning to “completely equip”)

*The purpose of the gifted leaders is to completely equip or give tools to help the body of Christ do the Work of the Ministry.

Work:  
Greek word:      er'-gon                         (Meaning “occupation”)

*The work each Christian ought to be involved in is for the UNITY of the believer in the cause of Christ.
**Unity means to be unanimous in choice.  We may not have the same personality, but we must be willing to make the same choice about biblical living.
***The effort or Work of the Ministry is the hard work ethic of making biblical decisions rather than allowing our flesh to choose for us.

Edifying:
Greek word:      oy-kod-om-ay'           (Meaning “structure / or to build”)

*As we engage in the work of Christ, the body of Christ must be structured/equipped appropriately.  This structure is based on the Bible, and given by those that are gifted in areas of teaching, proclaiming, etc.  

It is important to remember the end goal of all gifts, and for the gathering of believers on different occasions:  it is to structure our hearts and gifts (edifying) to effectively occupy our lives for the sake of the Kingdom (work), and to receive the tools necessary through teaching, motivation, and encouragement to do so (perfecting).

Monday, September 15, 2014

UNITY : "It is the choice we make to make the same choice"


Thought:  UNITY
  
What does this mean? Simply put, "it is the choice we make to make the same choice".

We may not always feel like (in our flesh) choosing biblical standards, but the unity of the body will be accomplished when we "make the choice to make the same choice".

This word unity is the Greek word ἑνότης, meaning UNANIMITY.

Here’s the idea:  we are in a courtroom together and we cannot leave until we all agree on a verdict.  We must be UNANIMOUS in our choice.

One important thing that ought to distinguish believers is our unanimous belief on things:

                                Such as:

                                 Death, burial, and resurrection of Christ
                                 Be kind one to another
                                 Love one another
                                 Help the widows
                                 Love the poor
                                 Seek the Kingdom of God
                                 And so on.  
  
What happens when we as believers do not have the same verdict on these behaviors?  We are not in unity, and the power of the church is diminished.

Bridge class assignment:

We are discussing UNITY (or being unanimous in our approach and belief) about certain topics:  Dating, sex, career choice, and much more.

                This weeks assignment is to ask this question:  What are the characteristics of the person we are wanting to marry?  Looking forward to more discussion this Sunday!

Thoughts?

Monday, January 14, 2013

I want to read the Bible more, HELP!!



Those of us who are Christians would agree in the importance of scripture reading and study.  However, though we might agree intellectually, I wonder how many of us deny that truth in our lifestyle.  I am extremely burdened by the potential we all have to ignore the blessing of Bible reading and study.

To stand in awe of God, I believe, is to stand in awe of His Word.  He SPOKE the world into existence!  The Bible says we are to live by every WORD that proceeds out of the mouth of God!  Students who are reading this blog will remember my constant cry, “get in the Word”!  Why do I say that?

1.       How do I stop sinning? 

a.       Thy WORD have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.  (Psalms 119:11)

2.       How can I have more clarity in life?

a.       Thy WORD is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.  (Psalms 119:105)

3.       What is my purpose?

a.       Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the WORD of truth.  (2 Timothy 2:15)

The list can go on and on!  The truth is this: The Word of God is a BIG source of being a fruitful follower of Jesus Christ; therefore, it will be a BIG source of attack by the enemy!
So, what are some simple steps to get into a more consistent habit of Bible reading and study?

1.       Be saved!
Perhaps we are going through the motions spiritually!  You just feel better as a person by showing up to a Bible Fellowship class or a church service.  Yet, the bottom line is you simply have not given your life to Christ!  Therefore, what true value do you find in opening the Bible?  Today is the day of salvation!  The Bible is clear that we are all sinners (Romans 3:23) and there is a payment all must pay for that sin (Romans 6:23).  However, even though we were sinners, Jesus Christ paid the payment for our sin (Romans 5:8), and whosoever will call upon the Name of the Lord WILL be saved (Romans 10:13).  If you would like to talk more about salvation, and becoming a follower of Jesus Christ, please feel free to contact me at nstills@fbc301.org!

2.       Start small
I remember one resolution I made in the past of reading the Bible in a short period of time.  I began plowing through page after page of the Bible with this large goal in mind, and yet felt very little assurance that I was hearing from the Lord. 

If we were to start a workout program together, I would never ask you to run a marathon on day one, or do 15 pull ups.  I started working out with a friend not long ago, and he put me through a routine that included pull ups.  I could do half of a pull up.  He mentioned to me a way to build up my back that would help me do a pull up.  I began this very small and simple task and today I can bust out a multitude of pull ups without a problem.  His advice…”start small”
Perhaps you start by reading ONE VERSE!  Perhaps one chapter!  Whatever plan you start…just start!!  Get in the game of being a more fruitful follower of Christ!!!

3.       Be specific
The worse thing we can do is just to open the Bible and point our finger down on a verse and read it, walk away, and ASSUME the meaning.  Starting a Bible reading program is an act of WAR!  The enemy will come after you for he wants you to live as defeated people, without clarity, and wondering what the whole point of this Christianity thing is.  We must be very diligent about being specific with our program.

I get excited when I hear people say they want to read the Bible more, but the excitement turns to concern when they say they do not want to PLAN THEIR BIBLE READING!   I love the quote attributed to Ben Franklin and later to Winston Churchhill, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail”.  Be specific.  Perhaps you start by studying verses on a topic.  Perhaps you go to your pastor and ask for his upcoming message series, and start diving into his Bible reference list.  This will get you well prepared in your heart to be taught the Bible.

If you have more questions on how to be specific, please contact me at nstills@fbc301.org.

4.       Be accountable
The same guy I mentioned earlier that got me doing pull ups now has me texting my eating for the day to him.  Whatever I eat gets texted to him.  This is called accountability.  Because I know that I am going to text him my food, I think strongly about my eating habits.  There was a spell of time that I stopped texting him because I didn’t want him to know that I began making wrong eating choices.  Not long passed when he shot me a text asking me how I was doing in my eating because he had not heard from me.  The tendency is to not have accountability so you don’t feel the taste of others seeing you fail.

You need to find someone in your life that you say, “I want to read the Bible consistently, and I want you to hold me to it!!”  Perhaps you text each other the passage of scripture you read that day, or whatever you both agree on; but the point is get someone to hold you accountable!!

5.       Don’t quit
Michael Jordan said “if you quit ONCE, it becomes a habit.  Never Quit!”  Not bad, but here is what the Bible says about quitting!

Galatians 6:9 says, “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”

Doing any sort of good behavior can become a difficult act.  Rewards for good behavior are not always big and visual.  As the farmer patiently waits for the fruit of his labor, so we are to patiently stay steady in our good efforts.  Bible reading will become difficult to maintain consistently…Don’t be weary in this well doing, for in God’s timing you will see the fruit of your labor.

In HIS Service,

Nate

Saturday, December 29, 2012

3 Simple Steps to a Successful 2013




Every year brings the normal discussions. Examples are: “This year I am resolving to lose weight”, “I want to read through the Bible this year", and so on.  We have all heard and said New Year’s resolutions that in many cases never find fruition.  

I’m not interested in this article to explore how to keep resolutions; rather, what should our resolutions be.  My question for you is this: If we were to sit down and write out our resolutions of 2013 on paper, how many would we write before we saw any regarding our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ?

I am guilty!  I write things dealing with work, family, fitness, skills, and many more.  Finally, I write something along the lines of memorizing more scripture, or telling more people about Christ.  I’m not saying that work, family, fitness, skills, etc. are not things to desire higher efficiency or productivity, but I challenge myself on the order of my priorities!

So, what are some steps we can take to make sure our goals and resolutions for the New Year are in the right order of priority?

1.       Be still                                                                              

Psalm 46:10 tells us; “Be still and know that I am God…”  The idea here is “to stop!!”
               
Stop working so hard for a little bit! 
Stop trying to make your life pieces fit so perfectly in your mind!
Stop trying to force what you think God’s will is for your life!
Stop yelling at your kids for making you “look bad”!
Stop worrying about what people think of you!

Take a break and BE STILL!!  Know that God is in control!  The rest of the verse says, “I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”  Why do we work so hard to make a name for ourselves, when the only NAME that matters is JESUS!!

2.     Put first things first

 Matthew 6:33 “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”

Our first priority is the Kingdom of God.  What are “these things” that will be added?
               
      We seek great blessings and reputation!  We seek promotions and prestige!  But what if we sought the greatness of God?  What if we asked God to liberally pour out to us His unmerited grace that we can shine the kingdom of God to others we come in contact with?  What if we sought to be great in the kingdom of God, rather than this kingdom of men?

                If we seek eternal wealth, the wealth we desire on earth will come to pass!  It may be that because of our eternal focus, we have NO desire to partake of the things only this world has to offer.  However, the things that accompany our eternal treasure, which we all should be laying up, will be provided by our heavenly father! 

3.   Make note of time wasters

Find a quiet place and review 2012 with a piece of paper in hand.  Write down the things in your life that you would classify as time wasters:
 
                Examples could be TV, Facebook, and certain  acquaintances.



Ephesians 5:15-16:                                                                                       
         “See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”
                We are to be careful in how we live, and not be wasteful or unwise with our time.  The word “redeeming” is the idea to purchase or buy up from the possession or power of others.  We need to protect our time from wasteful activities, and use our time more for the kingdom of God!
There are so many other things that could be said about prioritizing our New Year resolutions!  But I am confident that if you are still, put God first, and use your gift of time for the Kingdom and not waste it on insignificant things; you will have a much more productive 2013!!

For HIS Glory,
Nate