There was a song in the 1970’s (totally before my time, of
course:) that came out titled “Precious and Few”. Some of you are reading this and your mind is
wandering back to that era and remembering different events in your life, or
even the girlfriend/boyfriend you had during this song’s popularity.
I feel that we have very few moments of real relationship
time with our family. I broke down my
week and how my time percentages played out…give it a look:
Church related activities 15 hours (9%)
Work week 45-50 hours (30%)
Sleeping 50
hours (30%)
Eating 15
hours (9%)
Exercising
5 hours (3%)
(estimates
only…changes any given week)
Total hours doing
stuff 130-135
hours a week
(This
is my physical commitment-“Have to be there”)
We have a total bank of 168
hours every week to allocate to our life…With my commitment of 135 hours a
week I am left with 33 hours to allocate to other areas of importance:
Bible
study and prayer
Dates
with my wife
Quality
time with my kids
Writing
music, or learning more of my trade
Fixing
things around the house
Mowing the
lawn
Hanging
out with friends
Mentoring
others and being mentored
Personal
development and study
Other
I consider all the things above highly important to
accomplish, and with the list only being at 10 items, I have a weekly time allocation (if divided evenly…which
they won’t be realistically) of 3.3
hours each.
3.3 hours with my wife a WEEK! Not going to work. I’ll list my priorities and allocate time
accordingly, but my point in all this is to examine the budget of time I have
available to me, and how best to use it.
Ephesians 5:16-17 tells us to not be foolish with our time,
but make the best use of it in these evil days.
Just as many of us are tempted to spend our money with no
real concern of a “budget”, so we spend our days. We give valuable time God has made us stewards of to unnecessary and unimportant things.
What are we getting done? What
relationships are we nurturing?
I encourage all of us to sit down and look at our time. Write a list of items that represent your
days (work, eating, etc). List how many
hours in the day you spend on such items and look at your week. We may be surprised at how “foolish” we are
being with our time.
God Bless
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